Wed By Norm


Pricing

Prices start at $700

Packages

Prices start at $700


About Wed By Norm

Wed By Norm

Intentional, personalized ceremonies for sophisticated, stress-free couples — nationwide and abroad.

At Wed By Norm, I design wedding ceremonies that feel powerful, personal, and unforgettable. I’m Norman I. Graham, a professional wedding officiant trusted by couples across NY, NJ, CT, PA, RI, and destination locations who want their ceremony to be the moment everyone remembers. My signature strength is transforming your love story into a ceremony that feels authentic, intentional, and emotionally resonant for both you and the people who came to celebrate you. My role is to listen carefully, understand what matters most to you, and craft a ceremony that reflects your values, culture, humor, and connection.

My process is clear, collaborative, and thoughtfully structured. I design a personalized ceremony script, guide you through meaningful elements you may want to include, and coordinate closely with planners and vendors to ensure your ceremony unfolds with grace and intention. When needed, I also lead rehearsals so that everyone feels comfortable, prepared, and present for the moment that matters most. For couples who want to strengthen their partnership beyond the wedding day, I also offer premarital and post-marital coaching.

In three words: Creative, Flexible, Innovative

Best of Zola 2026

Services

Ceremony types

  • Civil Union
  • Commitment Ceremony
  • Elopement
  • Interfaith Ceremony
  • Legal License Signing
  • Multicultural Weddings
  • Non-religious Ceremony
  • Religious
  • Vow Renewal Ceremony

Religious affiliations

  • Buddhist
  • Catholic
  • Christian
  • Hindu
  • Interfaith
  • Jewish
  • Muslim
  • Pagan
  • Secular
  • Sikh
  • Spiritual
  • Unitarian
  • Wiccan

Wed By Norm packages

Pearl

Description

Package 1

What’s included
  • Consultation
  • Personalized Ceremony Script
  • Memorable Ceremony
  • Vow Assistance
  • Professional Officiating
  • Signing Marriage License
  • Domestic Travel Up To 40 miles

Amber

Description

Package 2

What’s included
  • All Pearl Package Services
  • Wedding Rehearsal
  • Speech Assistance For 2 Wedding Party Members

Ruby

Description

Package 3

What’s included
  • All Amber Package Services
  • Ceremony Equipment Provided
  • Professional Audio System
  • Vendor Referral
  • Framed Keepsake Certificate
  • Custom Wine Bottle For 2
  • Domestic/International Travel

Reviews

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5.0 out of 5

23 reviews

  • AL

    Arielle L.

    Mar 17, 2026

    Wedding Guest Attendee

    Norman was a joy to watch! As an officiant, he knew when to spark joy with laughter or when to get serious and shed tears. You could tell he had a connection with the couple, and met with them to discuss what they valued on their important day. He stood their and spoke from his heart, it did not sound rehearsed or forced! As a friend of the bride, it was so impactful to see someone who lead their ceremony with ease. I would definitely recommend booking with Norman!

  • RJ

    Rajia J.

    Dec 31, 2025

    Amazing Wedding Officiant!!

    I’ve known Norman (and the newlyweds) for years, and watching him lead the ceremony was truly amazing. I had the pleasure of being a bridesmaid, and they honestly couldn’t have picked a better officiant! He made everything feel so warm and personal, heartfelt, and even a little fun! He gave us smiles, he gave us laughs, and he perfectly captured the couple’s personalities. Weddings can be hectic and stressful, but he made sure that on the big day they were calm, confident, and completely at ease in front of everyone. It was very natural, very organic, and I loved that. The ceremony flowed beautifully, and so many of us were smiling, laughing, and even tearing up at the perfect moments. The bridesmaids cried, the groomsmen cried, we all cried. But it was all happy tears, such a beautiful thing to be apart of! We all had such a great time, and you could just tell how much thought and care he put into making their day special. If you want someone who’s professional, warm, and makes the whole experience unforgettable, someone who’s going to reflect on your personalities and your journey as a couple, and someone to really move and make your guests feel that love in the atmosphere, Norman is the man to call! You surely won’t regret it.

    Norman GrahamJan 2, 2026

    Thank you so much for these incredibly kind words. It truly means everything to be trusted not only by the couple, but also by the people who love them most and know them deeply. Creating a ceremony that feels warm, personal, and reflective of who the couple really is—their journey, their personalities, and their love—is always my intention. Weddings can absolutely feel hectic, especially as emotions run high, so hearing that the ceremony felt natural, organic, and emotionally balanced means a great deal to me. My role is to help create a seamless experience where the couple and wedding party can stay present, calm, and confident in the moment. Knowing everyone felt supported and able to fully enjoy the ceremony without added stress is exactly what I hope to provide. Thank you for recognizing the care, adaptability, and intention that went into their day. Being able to connect the couple, their wedding party, and their guests into one shared experience is what makes a ceremony truly unforgettable. I’m deeply grateful to have been part of such a beautiful celebration and appreciate you for taking the time to share this so thoughtfully.

  • SE

    Spring E.

    Nov 24, 2025

    Outstanding Ceremony

    We are so grateful to have had Norman as our wedding officiant. From the very first conversation, he was warm, professional, and genuinely invested in getting to know us and our story. He helped guide us through the ceremony planning process, offered thoughtful suggestions, and made everything feel effortless and stress-free. On our wedding day, Norman delivered a beautiful, personalized ceremony that perfectly reflected who we are as a couple. His words were meaningful, heartfelt, and even brought a few happy tears. So many of our guests commented on how touching and engaging the ceremony was. If you’re looking for an officiant who is organized, kind, and truly cares about making your day special, Norman is the perfect choice. We couldn’t have asked for a better experience!

    Norman GrahamNov 24, 2025

    Thank you both so much for these incredibly kind words — they truly mean more than you know. It was such an honor getting to know you, your journey, and the love you share. From our very first conversation, I could feel how special your connection was, and being trusted to help tell that story on your wedding day was something I don’t take lightly. I’m so glad the planning process felt smooth and stress-free for you — that’s always the goal. Your ceremony was such a beautiful reflection of who you are as a couple, and seeing your guests connect with it in such an emotional and heartfelt way is exactly why I love what I do. Those happy tears in the room? Unforgettable. Thank you again for allowing me to stand with you on such an important day. Wishing you a lifetime full of love, adventure, laughter, and continued sacred moments together. 🤍 To any couples reading this and planning their own ceremony, I hope you find an officiant who makes you feel just as seen, celebrated, and supported — exactly as you deserve.

  • KF

    Kayla F.

    Nov 14, 2025

    Officiant was Basically Like Family!

    Having Norman as our officiant was one of the best things that happened for our wedding! Leading up to the day, he was very helpful as we navigated filing for our marriage license and writing our vows. He crafted a beautiful and personal ceremony for us, and delivered it flawlessly with poise, care, and love. Our friends and family also enjoyed talking and dancing with him, mistaking him for one of our close relatives! We're so glad we had Norm on our special day.

    Norman GrahamNov 17, 2025

    Thank you so much for this beautiful review! It was an honor to walk with you through every step of the process — from preparing your marriage license and vows to creating a ceremony that truly reflected your story. My goal as a wedding officiant is always to bring warmth, authenticity, and genuine connection to each couple I serve, and I’m grateful to know the love poured into your ceremony was felt by your family and friends as well. Thank you for trusting Wed By Norm with such an important moment in your lives. Wishing you both a lifetime of joy, and I’m always here for couples looking for a personal, heartfelt, and professional wedding officiant for 2026 and beyond. 💍✨

  • RW

    Rondell W.

    Nov 2, 2025

    Great experience with Wed by Norman!

    I am delighted to recommend Norman Graham of Wed by Norman as an outstanding and highly personable wedding officiant. Norman was an integral part of our wedding experience, and we are grateful for the expertise he brought to our day. Working with Norman was a truly positive experience. He was a great collaborator who offered support beyond simply officiating, providing valuable upfront counseling and wedding advice. Furthermore, his guidance was essential in helping us craft and refine our vows, ensuring our ceremony was both authentic and stress-free. On the day of the event, Norman delivered a ceremony that was perfectly balanced. He made the service fun and genuinely engaging, masterfully keeping our guests entertained and attentive throughout. His delivery was warm, professional and entirely focused on celebrating us as a couple. We wholeheartedly recommend Norman for any couple seeking an officiant who truly listens to their needs. He has a unique talent for tailoring the ceremony to the couple's personality, ensuring the day is fun and memorable for everyone involved.

    Norman GrahamNov 3, 2025

    Rondell, thank you so much for such a heartfelt review. It was truly an honor to stand with you and your partner on your special day. From our first conversation to the moment you exchanged vows, it was clear that your ceremony would be filled with intention, elegance, and love. Your all-black affair was absolutely stunning — every detail reflected your personalities and the connection you share. Helping you craft your personalized vows was the bow to making your day the best day ever. The way you expressed your love and gratitude to one another was genuine and powerful — it set the perfect tone for the evening. I’m so grateful to have been part of such a beautiful celebration. You and your partner aren’t just former clients — you’re friends for life now. Wishing you both endless happiness, laughter, and adventure in this new chapter together. 💍✨